Marije de Graaf
Hi, I’m Marije! Founder of Liebe & Liefde and a wedding & event planner who supports you with love, calmness, and a steady hand – both in the heat of the moment and in every step leading up to it.
I grew up as a down-to-earth Frisian – surrounded by meadows in the small Dutch village of Broeksterwoude. From early on, I knew I wanted to explore the world! I lived in Groningen, Oslo, Brussels, and Amsterdam before love brought me to Düsseldorf a few years ago. Today, I live there with my fiancé in a house with a beautiful garden – and my love for greenery has never left me.
Liebe & Liefde was founded in May 2025, but I have been working in the event industry for over eight years. From international congresses in Australia to online business anniversaries during the pandemic, from multi-day incentives for 500+ colleagues to Christmas parties, concert evenings, and countless other corporate event formats – before I turned to weddings, I had the privilege of organizing a wide variety of projects and gained a wealth of valuable experience.
I believe in perfect timing and thoughtful planning – and above all, that every couple deserves a wedding that truly reflects who they are. Your wedding should feel like you. That’s why I want to get to know you, so I can support you in the best possible way and help create the most beautiful, personal version of your special day.
If you’re looking for someone by your side who not only organizes but also empathizes, thinks along with you, and dreams with you – someone who communicates seamlessly with local vendors, lifts you up when things feel overwhelming, stays positive, makes you laugh, and most importantly, gives you a sense of comfort and security – then it’s time we meet.
Lots of Love, Marije
The Heart of Liebe & Liebe
An unforgettable, personal wedding doesn’t require a long journey.
The destination wedding feeling – intimate, personal, and full of unforgettable moments with your loved ones – doesn’t have to be far away. It can be created just around the corner or right across the border.
I speak fluent Dutch, German, English, and Frisian (for the Northerners) and support couples who wish to marry in the Netherlands, Germany, or Belgium in designing a wedding that is truly unique and deeply personal.
Organizing is my passion – but my heart beats fastest when I get to know your stories. My fiancé often calls me a social butterfly, and it’s true: accompanying couples on the journey to such a meaningful chapter in their love story, experiencing it up close, and using my organizational talent to bring it all together is a privilege I cherish. I am profoundly grateful to every couple who places their trust in me and allows me to share in their journey.
From this experience, my philosophy was born: to support Germans speaking couples in celebrating their dream wedding in the Netherlands or Belgium, Dutch speaking couples who wish to marry in Germany or Belgium, and international couples who envision their celebration in Germany, the Netherlands, or Belgium – always with the same dedication and heartfelt commitment. For destination weddings that are close, personal, and authentic.
Let’s get in touch!
Now that you’ve gotten to know me a little, I’d love the chance to get to know you better too. Share your love story and your vision for your dream day with me – and together we’ll explore how I can best support you in bringing it to life.